omg! last update three months

this is how lazy i am now.....honestly the past three mths have been nothing but crazy for me so i really did not have any energy to blog abt it..here are the updates if u are still reading

work:
the past three mths have been a torture...not only in terms of workload coz there was the concert and the usual end of the yr portfolios to be returned/ preparation for next yr but it was human envt that was crazy....firstly my partner in class decided to be a corpse in school...basically she was physically there but yet not there at all...there was a bitter final showdown between her and the management which resulted in her departure..and it was a vicious cycle..whenever the management hounded her for things, she would be in a bad mood which resulted in her not doing anything in class...like my boss said before, she thought that this teacher is matured and able to run like a horse so she gave this horse the freedom to do whatever she wanted with no checking..at the end of the day, she realised that this horse is actually a donkey in disguise...i did not want to comment much but i think it takes two to clap...my boss basically gave her too much trust and freedom that she abused it....basically the donkey was just displaying traits of donkeys from a certain place so my boss had too much faith in the PR word...
then we had another teacher who was MIAing nearly every other week coz her son or her will be sick...she is crowned the mc queen coz she has exhausted all her leaves, childcare leaves, mc leaves etc...she is also now serving her notice coz she realised that she has to be there for her kid...again, my boss has too much faith in her by employing her in the first place when she has past records of not staying in a place for more than 6 mths...no doubt abt it she is a good teacher but no one will be able to endure a teacher who works only maybe 12 days in a mth...the rest are all unpaid leaves and mcs...i am not disputing that family and children shd come first but one shd have a certain level of responsibility towards work too...i have to keep covering her classes and she shd be glad that these are not local parents so they are really understanding when the class teacher is not there...pockets of drama unfolding here and there, it is a wonder that i am still alive and kicking...hopefully next yr will be much better for me....

home:
it is the usual story...mil good mood = nice to me, mil bad mood = no talking and black face....i am getting used to it and stop being too bothered abt it...anyway i want to remain hopeful that my hse is going to be ready by end of next yr then i can finally move out and be subjected to a different set of problems...haaa...time really flies...in jan i would have already stayed here for two yrs..wow! and i am still alive!

daddy:
i think we go through the usual stages of married life...from the excitement of being together everyday to now the usual routine of life...like any other couple, we quarrel abt the tiny things in life but i am happy that despite all the ups and downs, we still remain rooted to each other and enjoy each other's company...i am happy that at least we don't morph into two people doing their own things at home...we make it a point to watch the same drama serial together..do chores together...go out together...come home together... sleep at the same time..wake up at the same time....even when i am on leave like now, he makes sure that he leaves for work later and come home earlier to spend time with me...and in return i have to give him some freedom to go for his police duties twice a week at nights..guess that is married life....give and take.....

health:
still in a yoyo...i really need to be more discipline with my food intake..not too salty and not too sweet..then my weight wont fluctuate so much..recently i realised that jap food seems to work wonders for me...perhaps because jap food tend to be more mild tasting with no much extreme flavouring....it sure is hard work with choosing the right food...

well christmas is coming...my fav time of the yr...i am grateful of things that i have now and for the ppl ard me....next yr it is going to be challenging..i hope i will have enough energy to get through everything...and give me my hse soon!